its' been long

that i haven't posted.. not that i've stopped writing.. but i seem to have become wiser..
and now know that your wisdom applies mostly to you.. so keep to yourself and keep others deprived... and enjoy their helplessness..
that's a sadistic me...
not to mention that i am a certain kind of sadist.... a fluctuating one ...

sadism is bless.... but extreme sadism.. is wat we call evil :D :D

anyway, since this is not what i actually wanted to say... lemme tell you that life is a roller-coaster right now.. and its certainly not "fun" ... not to mention it's not always like that....

i recently read this as a friends status.. so i'll say it :"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"

Sweet Nothing

There are some days that happen to fly

the simple emotions that aren't that dry

Not unnoticed do they make u feel

oh wat if all of this was reel

lie in the realms of these

u cannot help but catch the disease

they leave as all of this were real

not much of truth do they reveal

great are the moments, that they exist

for it is they whom we fail to resist

Emotional high

That is all we crave for , the provider is the society and so is it the emotional low warehouse. We talk about things , we say we do or think , or show the society how its done . The ones who triumph practically , and the ones who succeed virtually get the high , the feeling of which gives pleasure of the highest notch . And lead up to the state which we sometimes refer to as happiness . The other one of course is the Satan . It makes either geniuses out of us or leaves up in a state of grand denial . Denial of our abilities , the denial of our hopes and dreams , and finally in the most severe cases the denial of one's own self . When one enters the denial one , we put our guard up , increasing it gradually until the moment we start to break down . This causes immense suffering and pain to most of us  .

Someone once said , our hardships make us stronger . And so it does , not to forget perseverance is the key . There can and are various ways other than the help of the society which provide up with emotional highs . The fulfillment of goals , the attainment of skills , the presence of our loved ones , the love we gain from animals and nature , or even solitude .

It is not under the presence of the real high that we seek the aid of stimulants . 

PS: i don't know why i wrote this.. but i did...

 

All you require is < 100%

We live in a society where everyone wants to belong to the category " Perfectionist". But when has anyone actually seen perfection ?

 In fact , how would you define a perfectionist. For all i know , perfectionists are people who just do things a notch better than everyone else does them. You can never do a task to its 100% . A phenomenon we have been experiencing since the day we came to our senses . There is always a new, better,  person who does it in a "better" way. But that doesn't mean he/she's the perfectionist.

There will someday be a better do-er than the previous one. The society just wants us to know that there are goals set high & standards scarcely achieved.Being a perfectionist is to be someone who thinks he/she can do the stint to their level best , not "the" best.

So to call yourself one , you need to create standards for what you think you can, but with much effort, achieve. The world loves you when it thinks that you're someone different, cause adaptation is what we do best. Environment, society, feelings, relationships , problems, we adapt to them all. The ones who don't , either set examples or are never even considered extant. 

Its all about going with the flock or going against the tide. Help yourself.